Couple Divorce Over Wife's Refusal To Take Husband's Surname


An Igando Customary Court in Lagos  State has dissolved a three-year-old marriage of a civil servants over the refusal of the woman to bear her husband’s surname.
The court president, Mr R. Adeyeri, held that Mr Johnson Munago and his wife Helen, both aged 35, were tired of their marriage, as all efforts to reconcile them failed.
“The court has no choice than to dissolve the union in spite of the woman’s claim that she loves her husband,’’ he said.
 Adeyeri referred the custody of the two-year-old child produced by the marriage to the Family Court.
The president also ordered Johnson to pay N50,000 rehabilitation cost to Helen.
Johnson, it was gathered,  had filed a suit on August 23, 2012, for the dissolution of the marriage over Helen’s refusal to change her surname.
The petitioner told the court that since he married Helen in 2010, she had refused to bear his name.
“She always tells me that she is comfortable with her father’s name, and that she cannot change it,” Johnson said.
He also submitted that Helen was too demanding, adding that she insisted that he should rent a flat for her and be giving her N10,000 weekly for upkeep.
“When I tried to explain that I didn’t have money to rent a flat, she told me that she agreed to marry me just to solve her personal problem.
“She said that she was diagnosed of a womb ailment and that the doctor advised her to get pregnant as soon as possible.
“She told me that she had got what she wanted, and thereafter packed out of our apartment on January 16, 2011 with my son to an unknown destination,” he said.
The petitioner also said that the woman regularly returned home late in the night.
Responding, Helen told the court that she still loved her husband, although he was a drunk and had refused to care for his family.
“He spends his salary on drinks and comes back home drunk,’’ she said
Helen told the court that she sponsored their wedding ceremony in 2010 and that Johnson failed to reimburse her as he promised.
She added that her husband abandoned her and the child for eight months and returned to seek divorce.

Baba Suwe loses N25 Million award at the court of appeal

The Court of Appeal in Lagos, has overturned the ruling of a high court and quashed the N25million damages awarded to Nollywood actor, Babatunde Omidina, popularly known as Baba Suwe.
In the ruling, the Court of Appeal re-affirmed the right of the NDLEA to investigate, arrest, detain and prosecute drug suspects as long as the agency acts within the law.
 The court said the NDLEA had not violated Mr. Omidina's rights because it sought and got court orders from the federal high court to keep him in custody after the arrested him on the suspicion that he had ingested hard drugs.
 The Court of Appeal came down heavily on the Lagos High court judge that awarded the damages against the NDLEA, describing the decision as oppressive and burdensome to an agency of government carrying out its statutory duties.
 Baba Suwe's attorneys led by civil rights activist, Bamidele Aturu,  has vowed to take the matter before the Supreme Court

Oby George: I sell babies from N1.5m to N3m depending on the sex

  
Shock could best describe the expression on the faces of members of the press as they listened to the confessional statements made by 50-year-old Oby George, over the role she, and other members of a baby-for-sale syndicate, played in helping women deliver babies.
Making the confession recently in Lagos, at the state Police Command, the Port Harcourt-based woman, who had been in the business for over a year, confessed to having helped women deliver countless number of children through a very questionable method. This she does after she is been paid between N1,500,000 to N3,000,000, depending on the sex and number of babies her clients requests for.
Waterloo
The bubble, however, bust when a 61-year-old Lagos-based woman, identified as Cecilia Adesope, who was allegedly delivered of a set of twins at the Port Harcourt delivery centre, was arrested by the police in Lagos, when she took the babies to a hospital for inoculation.
Embattled Oby said: “I am now ready to talk, because it seems we are hiding something here. Cecilia was brought to me by one Mr. and Mrs Peller. No… she was brought to me by Mrs Okoro, who is now at large. She has been treating her, and she pleaded with me to help her deliver a set of twin babies. That all her life she has not had any child of her own, that she is desperate.

“Mrs Okoro told me that we should use my apartment since her husband was around and she does not want him to know about this issue. So I agreed and N1,500,000 was paid into my account for the job. On her due date, she travelled down to Port Harcourt and we all went to my place. I gave her some herbs to chew after which she went to the toilet, when she got out, we asked her to lie down and push with all her might while I held her hands.
“At a point, we used a razor blade to give her some tear so that blood will come out and make the whole thing look real. Mrs Okoro then brought the babies, whom she had arranged from somewhere. That was when mama heard the cries of babies.”
Mother’s story
Asked how she met Mrs Okoro and where the babies were brought from, Oby told newsmen that she knows Mrs Okoro very well, as both of them work together in ‘helping women deliver,’ but declined to give any information on where the babies were brought from.
On her part, Cecilia Adesope, told newsmen that she was brought to Oby by a woman still at large, believed to be Mrs Okoro, who had told her Oby would be able to help her. She said she was asked to go to Port Harcourt for delivery after she paying N1,500,000.
Cecilia said she was given some herbs after which she noticed her stomach getting bigger and she was convinced she was finally pregnant.
She said: “When I got to Port Harcourt for delivery on the date I was given, I was given something like a seed to chew. After I did, I felt like going to the toilet. When I got out of the toilet, I was asked to lie down and push with all my power.
“After that, I heard cries of babies. I also noticed some blood on my private part, and was given a pad to use. I did not go to the hospital during the pregnancy period, because I was instructed not to do so, as the hospital scan will not see the babies.
“When I returned to Lagos with my set of twins, I decided to take them to the hospital for inoculation injections. I don’t know what went wrong, but while we were waiting for the injection, the police came and arrested me.”
Another expectant ‘mother’
Also paraded was 43-year-old Joy Ibe, a supposedly pregnant woman, who lives at Ajah area of Lagos.

She told newsmen she has been married for 18 years without any issue, a dilemma that sent her everywhere seeking for the fruit of the womb, until she came in contact with Port Harcourt-based Oby Gorge.
Joy told newsmen how she met Oby, and what followed: “One of my neighbours visited Nigeria and heard about Oby. After she travelled back to the Unites States, she sent me Oby’s number and asked me to contact her if I am interested.
“I called up Oby and told her my problems. She gave me her address to come and meet her in Port Harcourt. When I got to there and met with her, she gave me some herbs, which I took and returned to Lagos. After sometime, I noticed that my stomach started getting bigger, and I believed I was pregnant.
“I was also asked to come to Port Harcourt when I am due to deliver. I have not gone to the hospital for scan, because the instruction given to me was that the scan will not be able to identify the babies in the womb. I paid her N2,700,000 for triplets.
Signs of pregnancy
“The only signs I have as a pregnant woman is my swollen stomach and legs which you can see. I still see my period sometimes.
“On the day I was arrested by the police, Oby had invited me to Port Harcourt for check-up, so she could ascertain if I am due for delivery. I went and she checked me. After that she said I was not due, that I have to wait for a little longer.
“But because it was late for me to travel back to Lagos that very day, she said I should pass the night at her house. I obliged. That was when the police came and arrested us. From what I am seeing right now, I don’t believe that I am pregnant despite my swollen stomach and legs.”
I think I’m pregnant
Information made available to members of the press by the Public Relations Officer, Ngozi Braide, revealed that it took a while for Cecelia to be convinced that she did not actually deliver the babies, going by the supposedly pregnancy period and delivery experience she had.
It was also gathered that the babies have been taken to one of the orphanage homes in Lagos.

Hunger Hits Boko Haram Members: 56 Insurgents Caught While Searching For Food


Military authorities in Borno State they had arrested a group of 56 terrorists that were moving from village to village in search of food, following a tip off from civilians.
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Some member of the group, according to the Director of Defence Information, Brigadier-General Chris Olukolade, who were moving around in a Toyota Land Cruiser Jeep with registration number Borno XA 428 ADM, suspected to have been stolen, were arrested at Daban Masara village while looking for food.
Weapons found in their possession included AK-47 rifles, single-barrel shotgun, double-hand shotgun and various calibres of arms.
Other items recovered from the group included seven packs of Improvised Explosive Devices (IED), two rocket-propelled gun chargers, two machetes, bomb detonators, camouflage and other military uniforms. They were also with charms, seven vehicles and eight tricycles.  
Olukolade said that it was believed that some stranded terrorists were keen on establishing new camps. According to him, most of them are currently in search of food, and are being trailed by military operatives.
The defence spokesman also disclosed that there were a few encounters with some insurgents in forest locations, apart from the identified and destroyed camps.
He said that the intensive cordon and search operation being conducted by the troops of the Special Forces received a major boost from civilian cooperation in communities close to locations being focused in the operation.

Rising: the Lady Gaga of tennis

She's the girl from Neenah, Wisconsin, who sports garish leopard print dresses, knee-high football socks and cowboy hats on court while slapping thick, black paint beneath her eyes. Brash American Bethanie Mattek-Sands is the self-styled Lady Gaga of tennis and on Thursday, she sent


Chinese star Li Na completely loco.
Mattek-Sands stunned the 2011 champion, 5-7, 6-3, 6-2, to reach the third round at Roland Garros and add a little colour to a drab Paris day. “It's funny. I haven't worn anything too crazy on court for a few years now,” insisted the 28-year-old, who has also been spotted in a cocktail dress made of tennis balls at a Wimbledon party.

Her fashion history includes being fined for wearing a striped cowboy hat during a match at the 2005 US Open

TICAD: Abe pledges 3.2 trillion yen for Africa at conference start

YOKOHAMA--Japan promised up to 3.2 trillion yen ($32 billion) in public and private assistance to Africa over five years at the opening of a key international conference on June 1.
"What Africa needs are private-sector investments and public-private cooperation that can make the best use of them," Prime Minister Shinzo Abe said in a keynote speech for the 5th Tokyo International Conference on African Development.
He said the package will include official development assistance worth 1.4 trillion yen, mainly directed toward infrastructure development.
Abe, who chairs the conference, asked African leaders to join forces for development of the global economy, calling Japan and Africa "co-managers," much more than "good partners."
He said he wants to visit the continent as soon as possible.
The prime minister also unveiled the Abe Initiative, which will bring 1,000 talented African youths to Japan to study at university and work as company interns.
The initiative is part of an industrial human resources development program targeting 30,000 Africans.
Abe said Japan will promote corporate investments and provide assistance in health, education, agriculture and other areas.
He also said Japan will play a more active role in peace building, expanding on the Self-Defense Forces' peacekeeping operations in South Sudan and anti-piracy activities off Somalia.
Fifty-one African nations are represented at the conference, with 39 top government leaders taking part.
The delegates, including representatives of international organizations, will discuss economy, health, education, conflict resolution and other issues over the three-day period.
A declaration outlining policies on African development will be adopted on the final day.
Japan hosts a TICAD session every five years with support from organizations including the United Nations and the World Bank.
On May 31, Abe individually met with 10 African leaders, including the presidents of Ethiopia and Somalia, in Yokohama.
He also attended a meeting to discuss support to Somalia, long ravaged by civil war, and promised 5 billion yen in assistance.

International Friendly: Mexico 2 Nigeria 2 1 June 2013


A brace from Manchester United star Javier Hernandez has seen 10-man Mexico claim a 2-2 draw with Nigeria in a friendly in Houston on Friday.
Hernandez gave Mexico the lead after 21 minutes at Reliant Stadium, but the match turned just before the half-hour mark when Pablo Barrera blocked a shot with his hand, seeing the referee send him off and point to the spot.

Brown Ideye made no mistake with the penalty, and Nigeria took the lead when John Ogu took a long-range shot that deflected off Gerardo Torrado and past Jose Corona with five minutes remaining in the first half.

Despite their numerical advantage, Nigeria could not find another goal after the break, and Mexico were able to level through that man Hernandez again.

With 20 minutes remaining, Chicharito met a Carlos Salcido cross at the near post and stabbed it past the goalkeeper, much to the delight of the pro-Mexico, 62,000-strong crowd.

The Manchester United striker moved into fifth on the all-time Mexico scoring list, with 32 international goals in 47 appearances.

INFO

Half-time
1 - 2
Full-time
2 - 2
Venue
Reliant Stadium (Houston, Texas)
Attendance
62000

GOALS

J. Hernández 21'
(assist by P. Barrera) 
1 - 0
1 - 1
29' B. Ideye (PG)
1 - 2
40' G. Torrado (OG)
J. Hernández 70'
(assist by C. Salcido) 
2 - 2

LINEUPS

SUBSTITUTES

Sharp hike in Indian petrol prices

Indian state-run oil firms Wednesday announced the sharpest hike in petrol prices in nearly a decade to offset growing losses caused by subsidised rates, rises in the international oil price and a plunging rupee. The increase was put at 6.28 rupees (11 US cents) per litre which, when taxes are included, will mean a 7.5-rupee hike for consumers in cities such as New Delhi from Thursday. 

The need for an urgent and substantial rise had been flagged by senior ministers in recent weeks, but is still likely to result in a major political fallout for Prime Minister Manmohan Singh's coalition government. The Congress-led government deregulated petrol prices in 2010 in a reform aimed at reducing the massive subsidies it pays to state-run fuel refiners which rely on imported energy. 

A series of much smaller petrol price increases last year caused an internal revolt, with the second-largest party in the coalition threatening to pull out unless the price hikes were rolled back. In a statement, the country's largest refiner, Indian Oil Corp, said it had been "compelled" to hike the price after sustaining losses of 10.5 billion rupees ($188 million) since the start of the current financial year, April 1. 

The main opposition Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) moved quickly to criticise the increase, and warned that it could lead to public protests. "This petrol price hike is clearly unreasonable, arbitrary and is condemned as it will put further inflationary pressure and lead to further rise in prices," BJP spokesman Ravi Shankar Prasad told reporters. India imports more than three-quarters of the crude oil it requires, and the import bill has risen dramatically because of high global prices and a plunging rupee. 

The Indian currency sank to an all-time low against the dollar for the sixth straight day Wednesday, breaching the 56-rupee mark for the first time The high cost of imported fuel is partly blamed for the ballooning of India's current-account deficit - the gap between exports and goods and services imports - to its widest level in eight years. Last month, Standard and Poor's cut India's credit rating outlook to negative from stable, citing the country's high deficits as partly to blame, and warned of a one-in-three chance it would lose its investment grade status

Finding the Courage to Love

I call him religious who understands the suffering of others.” ― Mahatma Gandhi
The shocking photos of the “Woolwich butchers” with their hands soaked in the blood of the poor soldier they had just hacked to death, has been repeatedly shown by all media outlets. There have been other pictures, though less widespread, of three ladies who have been referred to as the “Angels of Woolwich” confronting these men. These women, without regard to the dangers they were subjecting themselves to, stayed by the side of the dead man; with one of them praying for him.
The first time I saw the picture of one of the women talking with the killers, I must admit I really feared for her safety. However, as I read more about the women, it became clear why they acted the way they did: empathy. According to the UK newspaper, the Telegraph, the son of Mrs. Donnelly, one of the “Angels” said his mum did what she did because “that could have been me there on the ground.” As a true mother, she paid no heed to her safety, but thought of how to comfort the dying young man, who could have been her son, but for grace.
The ladies must have realized the dangers they exposed themselves to, after all the killers were still holding the murder weapons and the attack was very barbaric, yet they demonstrated courage even in the face of fear.
I wonder how many times we all have been held back from doing the right thing by fear. Fear can be a good force; it can protect us from danger, but it can also prevent us from carrying out a task because of the risks involved. I remember an incident that happened a few years ago when I visited Calabar. I had gone to a fast food eatery and on my way out of the place, some street children came begging for money. I must add here quickly that these children had been labeled witches by their family, tortured, and sent away. As I tried to give them some money, the lady who was with me quickly tried to stop me. She told me the ‘child witches’ would harm me for helping them. She screamed at them and constantly muttered prayers to wade off the evil she assumed they carried. I was dumbfounded because she is a very good and religious woman, who also has kids as young as those ‘child witches’.
However, she became blind to the suffering of those unfortunate kids, who could have been hers but for grace, because of her fear. Did I help the little kids? Yes I did, and went on to volunteer at an orphanage that housed some of them.
Like the lady in my story, most of us are wonderful people, but we find it difficult to show empathy because of the risks involved. We think of the “What-If’s”, the dangers that might occur, and then we decide against doing the right thing. I’ve heard stories of people driving past accident victims, too busy to help or too afraid of the trouble they would get into for helping. I wonder if they would do the same if the victim was a loved one.
Sometimes the fear that holds us back is not the fear of eminent danger, but the fear of doubt and the fear of “what will people say?” We really want to help, but do not want to take initiative, we would rather just wait to follow whoever leads. In the course of waiting for the right time, or the right person to follow, it becomes too late to help anyway. Would we want to be treated that way if the tables were turned? Wouldn’t we want someone to just do something to help us?
Other times we exonerate ourselves from helping because we are not rich enough, we are still unemployed, still unmarried, too busy…etc. We make up all these excuses because we feel there is a perfect time for helping or that it is the duty of the rich, or the old, or some other person. We become critical when we hear that a celebrity or a religious leader acquired expensive gadgets, instead of using the money to help the poor. We refuse to pay attention to those who roam our streets, begging for help. We forget that the blessings we enjoy came to us not because we are better than the destitute, but by grace. .
We don’t need to be rich before we can help others; remember if we are not faithful in little, we will not be faithful in much. We can help by demonstrating different non-financial acts of kindness: by becoming volunteers at charity organizations, by speaking kindly and listening to others, by mentoring disadvantaged kids, by using our skills to benefit others, by visiting the sick, by treating our housemaids as our own children, etc. There are endless ways we can support each other without spending money. In terms of financial support, I think it is better to support a poor family instead of making huge donations to pastors and imams who are already rich, especially those who do not have active charity missions.
As a Christian, I believe the most important thing to God is the way we treat others. The Golden Rule states that we are to love God and love our neighbors as we love ourselves. Our neighbor doesn’t have to belong to the same tribe, religion, social class, etc. Our neighbor is any human being in need of help around us. Just like Gandhi rightly said, if we cannot put ourselves in the shoes of others, then we are not religious, no matter the number of times we flood our churches and mosques or recite doctrines and prayers.
Are there rewards for helping those in need? You bet! But rather than seek the rewards, I think our attitude towards a needy person should be “that could have been me”, and just help. As we do that, regardless of the uncomfortable stares from people and the fears from within us, I have no doubt that we will experience great and priceless joy. Indeed, “it is more blessed to give than to receive”